Sacred Intimacy

Where Passion Meets Presence

Sacred Intimacy For Men

Are you a man seeking to reconnect with the depths of your own erotic and spiritual energy? Do you feel a gap between your desire for intimacy and your sense of self, or find yourself longing to release shame and embrace your body’s natural expressions?

I'm Trevor James, and I'm here to guide you into deeper, more meaningful connections with yourself and others. As a sacred intimate, I offer a space where you can explore vulnerability, sexuality, and authentic self-expression, free from judgment.

For those who are tired of transactional encounters and long for something richer, I provide an experience that celebrates emotional depth and true intimacy. I understand that for many men, being seen and accepted for who they really are can feel elusive or intimidating. In our sessions, I create a safe, compassionate space where you can let down your guard, express your emotions, and feel deeply connected.

Together, we will cultivate trust, honoring every moment with presence and intention. Whether you're seeking to reconnect with your heart, explore your desires without shame, or simply experience the warmth of being held and understood, my practice invites you to rediscover intimacy in a way that nourishes your spirit and awakens your essence. Let's embark on a journey where you are fully seen, heard, and valued.

What You'll Experience:

  • Eros: Awaken your inner passion and sexuality.

  • Essence: Discover your true self, beyond emotional barriers.

  • Passion: Reignite appreciation and eroticism.

  • Presence: Embrace full, mindful awareness.

You will connect to:

  • Source: Align spiritually and feel uplifted.

  • Yourself: Cultivate confidence and self-appreciation.

  • Others: Experience deeper, intimate relationships

At Eros & Essence, you’ll find a pathway to not only embrace your sensuality but to experience it as a source of healing, love, and spiritual connection. Let’s journey together, so you can feel truly at home in your body, your heart, and your soul.

“I am your confidante, your coach, your cheerleader, and your guide. I see you as a sacred being, capable of immense power and beauty. Your erotic energy is a resource to be harnessed, a tool for self-discovery and fulfillment. I believe that when your body, spirit, mind, and emotions are in harmony, you have the greatest wisdom and strength within you.”
— Trevor James

Here are some of the reasons you would come to Eros & Essence:

  • Reconnect with your body – Rediscover the pleasure and wisdom of your own body through conscious touch and intimate exploration.

  • Heal past emotional wounds – Receive support in releasing shame, guilt, or trauma related to your sexuality, intimacy, or self-expression.

  • Explore your full sexual potential – Safely explore new aspects of your eroticism, desires, and sensuality without judgment or pressure.

  • Enhance intimacy with your partner – Learn new ways to create deeper emotional, physical, and spiritual connections in your relationships.

  • Overcome sexual challenges – Get guidance to address concerns such as performance anxiety, difficulty with intimacy, or sexual inhibitions.

  • Feel truly seen and accepted – Experience the safety of being fully present and authentic in an intimate, non-judgmental space.

  • Explore alternative sexualities – Engage in new expressions of eroticism within a supportive and knowledgeable environment.

  • Deepen your spiritual connection – Integrate your sexuality with spirituality, awakening to the sacredness of your desires and intimate experiences.

  • Cultivate more joy and pleasure – Open yourself up to greater experiences of joy, pleasure, and fulfillment in your body and life.

  • Take a break from stress and responsibility – Enjoy a nourishing escape from the demands of daily life, where you can be held, cared for, and nurtured.

What does a sacred intimate do?

I like to say that sacred intimates combine the roles of priest, prostitute, and psychotherapist. In other words, they approach sexuality with the understanding that it’s related to soul work and to spirituality. They use mindfulness and integrity to help people identify, embrace, and practice desire as holy, sexual embodiment as an expression of the soul. They hold the body as sacred and view erotic energy as a crucial component of human life and spiritual health. Their primary intention is that of healing — and by healing I mean not just addressing the wounds to the spirit and the flesh caused by sexual abuse, addiction, or disease but also acknowledging that the fun and the pleasure, the vitality and the divine mystery of sex have nourishing properties in and of themselves. That’s a message that easily gets lost in a culture that is as ambivalent or sex-negative as ours.
— Don Shewey

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Waring Ave at North Hudson Ave.

Los Angeles, CA 90038

Hours (by appointment only)
Monday–Sunday
10am–11pm

Phone
(213) 588.4242