Pleased to meet you.

I’m Trevor James, a Sacred Intimate dedicated to helping men explore and integrate their spirituality and sexuality in a safe, empowering, and transformative way. As a Certified Touch & Cuddle Therapist, Masseur, and Intimacy Coach, my focus is on guiding men to connect more deeply with their erotic energy while honoring the sacredness of their bodies and desires.

With years of experience in the fields of touch, intimacy, sexuality and spirituality, I have honed my skills in creating a safe and nurturing environment for my clients. I work with men of all backgrounds and orientations, helping them develop a more profound sense of healing, intimacy, pleasure, and self-awareness.

Sacred intimacy is about creating a space where men can experience authentic connection—both with themselves and others—by dissolving emotional barriers and fully embracing their sexual and spiritual selves. In my sessions, I provide a safe, non-judgmental environment where you can explore the full spectrum of your intimacy and eroticism. Whether through touch, mindful practices, or emotional support, I work with you to cultivate self-awareness, trust, and a deeper connection with your body’s wisdom.

I understand the challenges many men face in navigating intimacy, vulnerability, and emotional expression, and I’m here to support you in that journey. Through sacred intimacy, I help you reclaim your power, fostering a greater sense of wholeness and a more meaningful relationship with yourself and those around you.

  • Certified Touch & Cuddle Therapist

  • Diploma in Tantra

  • Diploma in Massage Therapy

My Ethos

At Eros & Essence, I am committed to creating a space rooted in kindness, compassion, and the belief that you deserve deep connection and fulfillment. My mission is to offer you a safe, nurturing environment where you can explore your body, mind, and spirit without judgment. I honor your unique journey and provide the support you need to reconnect with your natural capacity for pleasure, joy, and intimacy.

My ethos is rooted in the following principles:

  • Kindness and Compassion: I treat all individuals with kindness, empathy, and respect, regardless of their background or experiences.

  • Support and Empowerment: I provide a supportive and empowering space for clients to explore their sexuality, build confidence, and enhance their relationships.

  • Inclusivity: I am committed to creating an inclusive environment that celebrates diversity and welcomes men of all ages of majority, sexual orientations, and body types.

  • Positive Transformation: I believe that sacred intimacy can be a powerful catalyst for positive transformation, leading to greater self-awareness, fulfillment, and connection with others.

I believe that true transformation comes when you feel seen, accepted, and empowered. With an open heart, I guide you toward deeper self-awareness, healing, and personal growth, helping you integrate your sexuality, emotions, and spirit into a harmonious whole. At Eros & Essence, I’m here to uplift, encourage, and celebrate the fullness of who you are, embracing your individuality with care and respect.

Your journey is sacred, and I’m honored to walk it with you.

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